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23 Sep

It’s no secret that lubricants are an important part of sex – whether alone or with a partner – yet many of us forgo it, possibly because we think our bodies have somehow failed us by not getting wet on demand and we’re cheating by using lube. Of course, this is not the case – lubricant is an amazing tool to get things going.

It’s important to understand that simply because our minds are ready for sex, it doesn’t mean our bodies have quite caught up. Lube is a great way to bridge the gap between mind and body. And even if you do get wet easily, there’s no such thing as too much lube!

The experts at Désir understand the important role lube plays in sex, especially when there are toys involved, and have put together a list of great toy and lubricant pairings. Read on to find your next great match…

READ MORE: You Can Totally Have Multiple Orgasms – And It’s Easier Than You Think

Sex toy and lubricant pairings

+ XES Sensual Cannabis Vaginal & Clitoral Stimulating Serum

The Satisfyer promises waves of pleasure to your clitoris with intense vibrational stimulation. For heightened clitoral stimulation, pair the Pro Plus with the XES Sensual Cannabis clitoral stimulating serum for increased stimulation and more explosive orgasms.


READ MORE: Ordinary Women Open Up About The Porn They’re Watching

+ PjurSpa Cherry Dream ScenTouch Massage Lotion

For the ultimate sophistication in massage wand technology, the Doxy Die Cast is perfect for both men and women alike. Pair your Doxy with the sensually soft Scentouch massage lotion for an easy glide that softens, arouses and moisturises your skin.


+ Intimate Earth Discover G-Spot Stimulating Gel

For a more intense G-Spot experience, pair your Serenity with Intimate Earth’s Discover G-Spot Arousing Serum. This G-spot vibrator is perfect for beginners and experts alike and offers 20 different functions. The stimulating gel is designed to heighten your stimulation and increase your orgasms. Its silky soft finish leaves you feeling more sensitive to the touch and fully aroused.

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23 Sep

Best. New. Ever: The Royal Livingstone Hotel has an exclusive package especially for Women’s Health readers.

Running from 14 to 17 November (book now before it’s too late) and dishing up all the nutritious cuisine, stretchy yoga bliss, need-to-know skincare, wine tasting, massages and more – it’s basically the wellness retreat of dreams. Here’s why you don’t want to miss this.

The Royal Livingstone is cool, but this is next-level

The Royal Livingstone takes you right to the heart of Africa’s wild beauty. And by that we mean the epic Victoria Falls – one of the world’s Seven Natural Wonders. The hotel is set along the forested banks of the great Zambezi, in full view of the Fall’s spray. This iconic waterfall is just a 10-minute walk away! Bonus: Guests score unlimited complimentary access via the hotel’s private entrance. Um… and this is just the setting of your (long) wellness weekend.

READ MORE: This Travel-Friendly Stretch Routine Is A Brilliant Jet Lag Buster

Thursday, 14 November 2019

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14:00 Hand massage on arrival

19:30 Meet and greet cocktail


Overnight at The Royal Livingstone Hotel by Anantara

Friday, 15 November 2019

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06:00–07:00 Sunrise riverside yoga

07:15–08:00 Walk to the Victoria Falls

9:00–10:30 Wellness brunch

10:30 60-minute Anantara Spa treatment

14:30–16:00 Vegan high tea with skincare talk

16:00–18:30 Lady Livingstone sunset cruise

19:00 Dinner

Overnight at The Royal Livingstone Hotel by Anantara

Saturday, 16 November 2019

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06:00–07:00 Sunrise riverside yoga

07:30–09:30 Breakfast

10:00–11:30 Healthy cuisine master class with Arabella

11:30–13:00 Lunch

17:30–18:30 Sunset yoga

19:30–22:00 Dinner and wine tasting

Overnight at The Royal Livingstone Hotel by Anantara

READ MORE: “I Figured Out Some Really Cool Ways To Stay Fit While I Was Travelling”

Sunday, 17 November 2019

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06:00–07:00 Sunrise riverside yoga

07:30–10:00 Breakfast

10:30 Checkout from hotel and transfer to the airport

Need to know

Cost: R25 688.00 excluding flights

To book: Email reservations.africa@minorhotels.com or call 010 003 8979

Flight suggestion: Fly into Victoria Falls on Kenyan Airways on Thursday 14 November and then fly out on Sunday 17 November from Livingstone Airport on British Airways.

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23 Sep

“When something is broken it never quite goes back to what it was, but that’s the beauty of healing.” Those are the words of a woman who survived abuse.

Amy Fox is passionate about fitness, health and wellness. She qualified as a level 3 personal trainer, CrossFit coach and health and skincare therapist before moving to Dubai to live her dream of improving peoples lives through fitness.

She was about five or six years old when she started being abused. Amy had no idea what was going on, but she knew on a deeper level it wasn’t right. “Being so young I didn’t know how to handle the situation so I suppressed it and stored it deep down in my memory bank,” she says. Women’s Health spoke to Amy on why she decided to remain positive, even when the odds were against her.

A coping mechanism

“I didn’t even know it then, but exercise has always been my way to through anything and everything in my life,” she says.  It was only after Amy’s abuser had passed away that she opened up about her abuse. “I was 18 years old at the time. I started seeing a psychologist and dancing was my way of escape. It’s taken me over 10 years of ups and downs to feel close to what I imagine ‘healing’ feels like,” she says.

Amy came back stronger, more self-aware and with a new understanding of what forgiveness really feels like. “I’m still healing, and always will be, but what brings me comfort in knowing that I’m not alone in my battle. I am not the only woman, or man, or has been through battles like mine,” she says.

Tools to be happy

Over the years, Amy has learnt that no one can make you happy except yourself – and this has been a big part of her healing process too. “Meditation, yoga, training, eating well, getting into nature and making time to do what I love makes me the happiest and doing at least one of these things on a daily basis is extremely important to me,” she says.

“If you are in a state of unhappiness, you are the only one to blame, as harsh as it sounds.” Amy believes the only way to change your state is to change your mind. “I always start my day with simply thinking of three things I’m excited about or something I’m grateful for. It’s a game-changer and a start to changing the way you think about life” she says.

READ MORE: “Going To The Gym Gave Me The Strength To Leave My Abusive Partner”

Don’t allow the past to define you

I strongly believe that we grow the most through times of suffering and struggle. It makes us who we are and the quicker you accept that the better! Now I don’t think about the abuse as something that’s happened to me but rather for me. It’s enabled me to see the world in a different light. “Abused are abusers” – a statement I’ve heard countless times. Let’s put this statement to rest! This doesn’t have to be the case because you are in charge of your fate. You are in charge of your future. I’m living proof.

Every experience has a lesson

“I’ve never learned so much about myself than I have through this experience. I know if I could get through that experience I can get through anything. I was angry for a long time, with the world, with myself, with the people around me, and it got so bad sometimes that I felt lost in it. I felt like it controlled my every thought and action, until one day I decided it was enough!

“I needed to take control because I was the only one who could help myself become better. It just takes time and the more I learn about myself the better my world becomes. Forgiveness is such a complex emotion I sometimes wonder if I’ve mastered it, but I think about it like this: My abuser was sick, he had a problem and although it was his fault and he had a choice, I think it’s way more complicated than that. He still deserves forgiveness.”

READ MORE: 7 Women Share What Got Them Through Suicidal Thoughts

The Ulcerative Colitis condition

In addition to overcoming the abuse, Amy suffers from ulcerative colitis, an auto-immune condition where inflammatory bowel disease causes ulcers and long-term inflammation to the digestive tract. But it hasn’t stopped her. “I’m on medication at the moment, but I truly believe that through diet I will one day be able to reduce the inflammation and hopefully be able to live in remission.”

It’s been a year and a half since diagnosis and she says it’s been a rollercoaster ride. “People are always so surprised to hear I suffer from a disease, but it can happen to anyone. It’s how you deal with it that counts. Fitness has again been my biggest blessing coping with the disease,” she says.

READ MORE: “Depression And Drug Abuse Was The Catalyst For My Transformation”

The importance of being… active

Being active has many perks. It not only stimulates your mind and body but keeps you in great shape too. “Being able to move is an absolute blessing and I will never take it for granted,” says Amy.

Pearls of wisdom

Don’t keep quiet, no matter what. The power of connection is everything and this is why Amy is sharing her story. “We are never alone in our battles. You are never alone and there is always hope. Feel the pain, go through all the emotions, then let it go. It will no longer serve you to hold on. This is all part of the healing process. Acceptance and mindset will be your greatest servers.” she says.

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20 Sep

Raise your hand if you’re a grown adult still dealing with full-blown breakouts on the reg. Yeah, we know the struggle.

Acne can be an entire force of nature on its own sometimes, and literally anything from hormonal fluctuations, genetics, stress, makeup, pollution, sun exposure and even your food choices can be to blame. It all just makes us feel like staying home, in a box, eating kale forever, right?! What a buzz-kill! That’s why we’ve partnered with Eau Thermale Avène (just Avène for short) — the experts in caring for sensitive skins — to bring you the best tips to keep nasty breakouts at bay.

1/ Consult an expert

If the blemishes are severe, it is important to get to the root of the problem. Seek the advice of a dermatologist or medical professional to assess the nature and degree of your spots — this is the first step in finding a solution that will work for you.

2/ Manage your stress

Trying to balance a hectic schedule at work and a super busy social life can be stressful. Well, try not to panic, say the experts. We know its easier said than done, but finding ways to unwind is not only beneficial to your overall health, it’s also good for the skin.

3/ Watch what you eat

If you are prone to blemishes, try to avoid high-glycaemic foods such as sweets, chocolate, refined grains and cereals, and fried or junk food.

4/ Cleanse and soothe

Blemishes thrive in a dirty environment. Cleansing your face in the morning and evening with a cleanser suited to your skin type, is important when fighting blemishes. Acne-prone skin can be constantly irritated, so soothe your skin and help restore its natural balance with a product like Avène Thermal Spring Water Spray.

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5/ Use specialised skin care products

There are so many products on the market, so finding the right one can be frustrating. The easiest way to approach it is to make sure you use a credible product that addresses your skin needs.

Eau Thermale Avène’s TriAcnéal Expert offers a specialised solution for women who experience stubborn blemishes and residual marks. Its key active ingredients include the following:

  • Diolényl, which helps limit bacterial growth, soothes redness and reduces blemishes
  • X-Pressin gently exfoliates and smoothes the skin’s texture
  • Retinaldehyde rejuvenates the skin and reduces the appearance of residual marks (it also has added anti-ageing benefits as a bonus)
  • It is also rich in the naturally soothing Avène Thermal Spring Water

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6/ Protect your skin from the sun

UV rays can make blemishes worse and cause major irritation… it can also leave you with dark spots. Apply a broad-spectrum sunscreen daily to protect your skin. But before you slap on the SPF, make sure the sunscreen is perfect for your skin type. If you have dry skin, opt for richer “cream” textures and if you struggle with combination or oily skin, go for mattifying “fluid” options.

Win a specialised Avène skin care hamper valued worth R2,500!

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Eau Thermale Avène products are available at Clicks, Dis-Chem and Dermastore. For more information visit the Eau Thermale Avène website.

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20 Sep

A wise person once said: “When the going gets tough, take a couple of naps” and another one said: “Always take naps when you can. It is cheap medicine.”

While hilarious, witty and fun, these statements have never been truer than they are today. According to a recent study conducted by researchers from the University Hospital of Lausanne in Switzerland, taking one to two afternoon naps a week could reduce your risk for heart attack, heart failure and stroke by a whopping 48% (so naps aren’t just a lazy indulgence after all!). 

As with most things in life, you can have too much though… Taking more than two afternoon naps in a week did not provide the same benefit. Ugh.

“We found that frequent nappers had initially a higher risk for incident cardiovascular disease,” Nadine Hausler, lead author of the study and postdoctoral researcher at the University of Lausanne in Switzerland, said in a statement. 

“However, when we took sociodemographic, lifestyle and cardiovascular risk factors into account, this increased risk disappeared.”

How the study was done 

The study, published in the British Journal of Medicine: Health, analysed the napping habits of close to 3 500 Swiss adults between the ages of 35 and 75 over a period of five years. The researchers also looked at the participants’ night-time sleep habits, gathered their lifestyle information and took a range of medical tests to assess their overall health. 

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At the end of it, 155 participants had heart-related medical events – some fatal. Compared to the people who did not nap at all, the results showed that nappers (one to two times a week) cut their risk for cardiovascular disease by 48%. 

While the link between napping and heart health was found, the researchers couldn’t quite give a reason as to why the link existed. 

“The mechanisms are not straightforward. We assume that occasional napping might be a result of physiological compensation allowing to decrease the stress due to insufficient nocturnal sleep, and this could have a beneficial effect on cardiovascular disease events,” Hausler explained. 

READ MORE: 9 Things You’re Doing In Your Sleep That Signal A Bigger Health Problem

The study’s limitations

The study noted that there were some limitations to their findings, the most important of which is the fact that a lot of the study relied on self-reported data. 

“Due to the observational nature of the data, we cannot rule out the possibility of residual confounding,” the study said. 

“The study was conducted in a Swiss population-based study, so generalisability to other settings where naps are either more or less frequent is not guaranteed. Hence it would be important that our findings be replicated in other settings.” 

Limitations or not, Hausler expressed that these findings were important to know and consider going forward. 

“We can say that occasional naps can potentially decrease cardiovascular disease risk for healthy adults.” Boom. 

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20 Sep

Connie Ferguson Dishes Her Secrets To Looking This Good At 49

Friendly warning: serious fitness goals ahead.

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20 September 2019

Connie Ferguson, TV actor and producer and all-round media powerhouse, is 49. She’s amazingly ageless — this much you can deduce through her pics or posts (and still they do no justice to the real thing). But it’s her positive attitude towards all things healthy that leaves us in awe. This mom of two and grandma of one credits her shape to her new boxing workout. WH ventured with her down the road of exercise and life lessons and found she wasn’t short of valuable parting shots.

Working out is not just for exercise

Despite her hectic filming and production schedule, Connie always finds time for a sweat sesh. “I think it’s important to feel good, and exercise makes you feel good.” A typical exercise session for Connie consists of a mix of cardio-intense pad work, weight training and resistance training. “I don’t want to be skinny — I want to be fit. I work out four to five times a week; the other days are my rest days. And people are discovering that it’s not just about physical health, it’s actually about mental health [as well]. The combos that I do are long; they’re great for mental fitness as well.”

Don’t sweat the small stuff

It’s difficult to imagine someone like Connie having body hang-ups. “I was very skinny when I was young. I used to hate my long arms. I’m naturally petite. I used to worry about my A-cups. I couldn’t find my comfort. Until life made me comfortable. After [second daughter] Ali, I went slightly bigger.” Mother nature left her with womanly curves and a B-cup. But her long slim arms didn’t change. She still struggles to fit into suits — even doing push-ups. But that doesn’t stop her. She finds different variations of push-ups to keep going. “I’m trying to work my arms every day.”

READ MORE: The HIIT Workout Routine You Can Do In 15 Minutes Flat

Stay true to yourself

Biggest life lesson? “Remain humble. This industry is very tough and it’s very easy to get a big head. I’ve been in the industry for 30 years and people always ask me ‘how do you remain relevant?’ My thing is that I always knew why I was doing what I’m doing. And it was never for the glory or for the fame. It was simply because I was/am passionate about it. It’s what I do — and I do it well. It makes me happy, it makes the people that watch me happy.”

READ MORE: Lesley-Ann Brandt Looks Amazing Naked! We Got Her Hot-Body Tips

Make time for happiness

The little time Connie finds for herself she directs to the things that matter to her — family and health. “… Whatever time I have I want to spend with family.” And her family extends to her fit fam too. “… These gym sessions have kind of filled [a] void, for not being [good at] the friends thing. So now I have gym buddies. It’s nice to have that female energy. Female friendship has become important.”

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20 Sep

You’re about to end off your magical date after an evening of good banter, but before you both get into your cars to drive off, they lean in for a hug. He or she hugs you and their arms find their way around your waist. You’re holding your breath, with hopes that they don’t feel your love handles. They miss and you let out a sigh of release because you forgot to do your side crunches today.

Ask any woman about her favourite body part and she probably won’t speak about her amazing love handles – that excess fat that sits on the side of the waist, also known by its no less cute name: muffin top.

Women’s Health spoke to 2019 Next Fitness Star finalist and certified group fitness instructor Renché Seyffert about the different natural ways we can get rid of our love handles.

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This workout consist of 12 exercises and will take approximately 25 minutes. Your obliques will be on fire — guaranteed!

Warm-up: muscle activation

Set your timer for four minutes. Perform 12 reps of each exercise before moving onto the next. No rest in between.

  1. Upright Oblique Dips
  2. Upright Oblique Crunches
  3. All 4 Windshield Wipers
  4. All 4 Side to Back Crunch

READ MORE: There Are 4 Types Of Weight Loss Personalities — Which One Are You?

Get moving, say goodbye to love handles

For these moves, the 50/10 principle applies. Work for 50 seconds, then rest for 10 seconds. Beginners can follow the 40/20 principle. Work for 40 seconds, then rest for 20 seconds.

Combo 1
50 seconds – Rainbow Dips
10 seconds – Rest
50 seconds – Spider Crunches
10 seconds – Rest
50 seconds –Combination: 2 Rainbow Dips, 2 Spider Crunches, 2 Rainbow Dips, etc
10 seconds – Rest

READ MORE: Your Weight Loss Struggles Might Be Genetic, According To Experts

Combo 2
Perform the entire set on the right and then on the left
50 seconds– Side Plank Dips
10 seconds – Rest
50 seconds – Side Plank Crunches
10 seconds – Rest
50 seconds – Combination: 1 dip, 1 crunch, 1 dip, etc
10 seconds – Rest

Combo 3
50 seconds – Heel Taps
10 seconds – Rest
50 seconds – Bridge Side Pluses
10 seconds – Rest
50 seconds – Combination: 2 taps, 2 side pulses, 2 taps then a 10-second rest

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Combo 4
Perform the entire set on the right and then on the left.50 sec Side Flutter Kicks
10 seconds– Rest
50 seconds – Side Crunches
10 seconds – Rest
50 seconds combination: 2 flutter kicks, 1 crunch, 2 flutter kicks, etc.

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20 Sep

Even if you spend a fortune on your skincare routine — cleansers, masks, toners, serums, you name it — you might not be considering the unkempt Beautyblender you press into your face daily for months on end. Think about it: When’s the last time you cleaned your blender? If it’s not after each use, you’re not cleaning it enough.

Take it from celebrity esthetician Renée Rouleau, who says, “A Beautyblender holds on to bacteria, so when you use it in the morning, you’re spreading germs and oil all over the face.” Beyond spreading bacteria, she adds, “You’re creating an environment in the skin where, potentially, breakouts could be exacerbated and the skin is not in optimum skin health.”

Because a sponge is porous, it can be a cesspool harbouring caked-in makeup, face oils, and even mould, all of which are transferred onto your face every time you use it. Plus, you can imagine that a dirty sponge simply won’t work as well when it’s soaked in layers of old creams and powders. First, the colour of any past products can be accidentally transferred. Second, the textures of your products can be compromised by cross-contamination.

If your makeup sponge is so filthy you’re not even totally sure what colour it was when you originally bought it, it’s time for a good suds session. Getting your makeup sponge to look brand new doesn’t have to be a complicated nor time-consuming process. We found five of the best tutorials to help motivate you to finally clean your damn makeup sponge, ahead.

Method One: Scrub it with a bar of soap.

Squeeze your makeup sponge under running water until it’s completely soaked and expands in size. Using any bar soap, rub the sponge back and forth against the bar while applying pressure to build up a lather and deposit the cleanser inside. Once the soapy foam has turned into a bubbly foundation shade, rinse the sponge under clean running water until the water runs clear.

Method Two: Massage it with olive oil and dish soap.

Mix a two-to-one ratio of dish soap and olive oil and massage it into a dry Beautyblender. Once the makeup sponge has soaked up the mixture, rinse it under warm running water. Squeeze and rinse repeatedly until the water runs clear.

READ MORE: One Thing You Should Really Be Doing With Your Make-Up Brushes

Method Three: Microwave it.

A quick zap can be just what you need to disinfect your makeup sponge. Nuke it in your kitchen microwave with some dish soap and say bye-bye to micro-organisms that may be growing on the sponge. First, mix a few drops of mild soap (dish soap or baby shampoo will work too) with water in a microwave-safe cup. Make sure there’s enough of a lathered solution to submerge the sponge fully. Give the sponge a big squeeze in the water, then microwave the cup for about a minute. Wait at least 30 seconds for the cup to cool before grabbing it from the microwave.

The soapy water will transform into gross makeup stew, and your once-dirty sponge will look like new. Once the water cools off, rinse your sponge and wring it out under running water. Just be sure to never microwave a dry sponge, nor leave it in too long — apparently Beautyblenders melt.

Method Four: Use organic products.

Because we don’t get Dr Bronner’s Pure Castile Soap, here in South Africa, look for a natural soap cleanser made with organic oils.

Add a few drops of the liquid cleanser directly onto the sponge and begin massaging, pressing, and pushing it into the sponge under running water. Allow it to create a lather. Rinse and repeat. Once the lather turns white (and no longer contains makeup), you’re ready to rinse and dry.

Method Five: Throw it in a mini washing machine.

If the only thing that will get you excited to wash your Beautyblender is a cute, novelty purchase, we’ll take what we can get. This mini washing machine fit for a Barbie doll went viral as an option for lazy girls to get their makeup sponges clean with almost no effort at all — that is, if you don’t count the effort you’ll put into documenting the process for Instagram.

Although it’s technically not made to clean your beauty tools at all, this child’s toy could actually pass for maintaining your sponges in a pinch. You’ll still need to schedule regular deep-cleaning sessions like the ones above, but some dish soap and a battery-powered spin cycle is just what you need to freshen up your favourite sponge temporarily.

PS: Don’t forget about drying!

Keep in mind, drying your Beautyblender properly is just as important as the regular cleanings. Tossing a damp sponge into a makeup bag or back into it’s packaging with the lid on, will create mould. Let it air dry thoroughly before packing it away. Rouleau suggests, “leave them out in the open (not in a drawer) where the most amount of oxygen can get to them.” She also adds, “Ideally, leave them to dry in the sunlight since they will dry faster but UV sunlight allows for some antimicrobial activity to help cut down on germs.”

Above all, keep in mind that while regularly cleaning your sponge will help extend its longevity, these sponges aren’t meant to last forever. Beautyblender suggests replacing yours after three months of use — and it’s a great rule of thumb for all your makeup sponges.

This article was originally published on www.womenshealthmag.com 

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20 Sep

It’s National Wills Week and it’s safe to say that South Africans simply don’t care about having a will. This is not according to me, but to a statistic by the Master of the High Court that reveals that almost 70% of South Africans don’t have one.

The consequences? Turmoil and disagreements after your death, a situation that no one would want to leave their family in. 

“A valid, clear and up to date will helps your family, and the executor of your estate, through what is already a challenging time,” Bryan Nicol, Independent Financial Advisor, tells us. 

READ MORE: Time For Real Talk — Are Women In South Africa Safe?

It states your wishes for how your assets are distributed and how your affairs are to be handled. It’s more than just letting your family know which of your things they can have – it’s also for your family to know what your last wishes are.

Here, we’ll go through the different ways that you can draft your will so that you can find an option that works best for you and finally get it out of the way. 

Get an attorney 

Nicol tells us that having an attorney draft your will for you is the best option. 

“The attorney will need to have a good understanding of what assets and liabilities you have on your name, how you are married, your immediate and extended family and so on,” he explains. 

“Once the lawyer understands your estate, they can assist you with how it can all be distributed and how the liabilities will be covered.” 

Type it out 

While not the most ideal option, you can draft your own will on your computer. But there are certain considerations you need to make when doing this. Nicol explains that you first need to make sure it’s labelled “Last Will And Testament”, state your full name and surname and let it be known that you are of legal age to draft it. 

You will also need to make sure that you have addressed all the various elements involved in winding up your estate, including but not limited to, appointing an executor of the estate, naming a guardian for minor children, listing assets and how they’re to be distributed (see bottom of article for a full check-list). 

Handwrite it

“If the will is physically handwritten, it must be legible as there is no room for doubt or misinterpretation,” Nicol says. 

“If you ask someone else to write it on your behalf, the person cannot be nominated as a beneficiary. However, if this is the case, that person will forfeit their share.” 

He goes on to say that in both instances (computer drafted and handwritten) the document needs to be signed by the testator (person who makes a will, aka you) as well as two witnesses. It’s also important to remember that the witnesses need to sign in the presence of one another and of the testator and they cannot inherit anything. 

Interesting fact: Witnesses don’t have to read or know the contents of the will. 

Do it online 

There’s almost nothing you can’t do on the internet.

“Online wills often prompt you throughout the process of completing the template. You then download it and sign it,” Nicol says. 

“This may be an appropriate route for someone with a very straightforward estate. It works best if you’re single with no dependents and have minimal assets.” 

Use a financial institution 

Lastly, financial institutions often offer some sort of will drafting service and it’s wise to take advantage of this, especially if you can’t afford an attorney. 

“Much like having an attorney draft your will, you will be assisted throughout the process,” Nicol tells us. 

“I cannot emphasise enough how important it is to get the drafting of the will right, especially if you have family who depend on you.” 

Remember this: Always make sure your nominated executor is aware of your will and knows where to find the original. Store the original safely and make certified copies. 

Your checklist

Nicol outlines the most important things to consider when putting your will together:

  • Have a list of all your assets and liabilities with market values for each property.
  • Know what life policies you have. Then, if appropriate, ensure the intended recipients are nominated as beneficiaries on these policies, as this will influence the Estate Duty that will be payable. Make provisions for any outstanding taxes so that this burden doesn’t fall on your heirs and legatees.
  • Have a list of the people you want to inherit from your assets.
  • Make it as clear as possible as the law provides for assumptions to be made should this not be the case (e.g. two people inherit the same property from your will).
  • Revise it appropriately after major life events (e.g. marriage, the birth of a child), to add any new assets (e.g. property), to remove sold assets, and to ensure beneficiaries inherit as you intend them to.
  • Point out whether you want to be buried or cremated and address any other last wishes you may have.

What makes a will null and void: 

  • It will be void if the testator did not sign as required by law. Sometimes a “mark” by the testator will be accepted, but this comes with its own requirements.
  • The testator must be at least 16 years of age to draw up a will as well as be in a sound state of mind. A person needs to be at least 14 years of age to sign as a witness.
  • The document needs to be signed by at least two witnesses. If this is not the case, it could be ruled invalid.
  • The will becomes invalid if it can be proven that it was drawn up under duress or fraud. 
  • If it is not dated, it will be void.

“If you die without a will your assets are distributed according to the law of intestate succession. This starts with the testator’s spouse, then children, then parents, and then extends to other family and ends with the government receiving the asset.”

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20 Sep

If you follow a few Instagram influencers, then I’m sure you’ve seen your share of weight loss products, such as “meal replacement shakes” and “detox teas”. Well, you might start seeing less of them very soon. Instagram has started rolling out new community guidelines detailing which type of weight loss products and cosmetic procedures can be promoted on the app.

Under its new guidelines, posts that promote the “use of certain weight loss products or cosmetic procedures, and has an incentive to buy or includes a price,” will not be shown to users under the age of 18.  And content that “makes a miraculous claim about certain diet or weight loss products, and is linked to a commercial offer such as a discount code” will no longer be allowed.

READ MORE: “Here’s Why I Follow These 6 Body-Positive Mavericks On Instagram”

The initiative is backed by actress and founder of the Instagram movement iWeigh, Jameela Jamil. Jameela is vocal about influencers and celebrities roll in diet culture and body confidence. She said in a statement, “This is a huge win for our ongoing fight against the diet/detox industry. Facebook and Instagram taking a stand to protect the physical and mental health of people online, sends an important message out to the world. I’m thrilled to have been able to work towards this with them, alongside a host of other experts who shed light on the danger of these products.”

READ MORE: Do Detox Teas And Detox Cleanses Really Work?


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THIS IS HUGE NEWS. @i_weigh are changing the world together. After a bunch of shouting, screaming, and petitioning… we have managed to get the attention of the people at the top, and they have heard us and want to protect us. And this is just the beginning of our efforts. As of now, if you’re under 18, you will no longer be exposed to any diet/detox products, and for all other ages; all fad products that have bogus, unrealistic claims will be taken down and easy to report. I’ve been working with Instagram all year towards this, who were amazing to deal with, and they expressed that they passionately care about creating a safer space for us all online. This happened so much faster than I expected and I’m so proud and happy and relieved. WELL DONE to the many people who have been working towards this huge change. This is a mass effort. This is an extraordinary win that is going to make a big difference. Influencers have to be more responsible. ❤️

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Many of the weight-loss products advertised on Instagram have harmful side effects, which influencers obviously don’t disclose. The detox teas that promise flatter tummies and less bloating can have you running to the toilet due to them acting as a laxative. And in actual fact have very little to do with fat loss but will rather have you losing water weight — which you’ll gain back.

READ MORE: “Here’s Why I Follow These 6 Body-Positive Mavericks On Instagram”

There have been numerous studies on the effects social media has on our mental health and self-esteem. Social media has been linked to higher levels of loneliness, envy, anxiety, depression, narcissism and decreased social skills.

Instagram has taken these studies into account, and have dedicated to bettering their user’s mental health. For example, their help centre has a dedicated tab that informs users about eating disorders, how to help a loved one to might be suffering from one and helplines to contact.

Instagram’s public policy manager, Emma Collins, said in a statement on Wednesday that the changes were aimed at dealing with the growing industry of influencer marketing on the platform.

“We want Instagram to be a positive place for everyone that uses it and this policy is part of our ongoing work to reduce the pressure that people can sometimes feel as a result of social media,” Collins said.

YAAAS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

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